Beats, Rhymes, and Dinner

What are things that you look for in a restaurant? Beyond the food.

Everybody appreciates a good, affordable meal, likely with good service and a wonderful ambiance. But what exactly is incorporated in ambiance? I find lighting to be the greatest issue currently plaguing restaurants across the world but that’s a conversation for another time. Ambiance can include a number of things: how well heated or cooled the restaurant is, how well spaced the tables are, the decor, and very important for me, the music.

You can go into any restaurant and listen to some smooth jazz stylings but I always find myself to be truly amazed and happy when a restaurant has a real soundtrack. Songs with lyrics that match the feeling they want their food to give you. This is part of the all encompassing restaurant experience. Every sense should have its time in the sun when you eat out, and your ears shouldn’t get left behind just because everything else is having a good time.

Most people think that only bars and clubs should have a good soundtrack or a DJ but I will tell you that every restaurant, obviously catering to their clientele and ~vibe~ should have a good soundtrack. When I was bartending in DC I was allowed for one night to take over the playlist for the restaurant below and the rooftop bar. God bless Spotify because it was a great time and my playlist held me down. While this is a dream for me (I am the queen of taking over playlists everywhere and requesting jams at clubs) but it really showed me how much music choice adds to your aesthetic in a restaurant. Food and music go hand in hand. While cooking you need to listen to music and its always great to listen to music while you eat (though sparkling conversation can substitute in as well). You really can’t call yourself a complete restaurant without taking into account how everything you display is taken by all five senses.

Two restaurants that have taken this challenge head-on and succeeded every single time I’ve been there, are Jacob’s Pickles and Maison Pickle (they happen to be owned by the same people, they must really have great taste). Beyond their delicious southern food and amazing cocktails, I always walk out of every experience at either establishment remembering how well the food paired with the music. I always find it delightful when I feel the need to ask my server what song is playing because I have to add it to my playlist. Better yet, when I go back and don’t hear the same playlist again and again, its always nice to know that seasonal eating can pertain to more than just the ingredients. I could write essays about how much I love each of these restaurants and if you’re ever in the city you should absolutely go because they achieve and often forgotten and ill-ascribed goal, the holy trinity of food, cocktails, and music.


Eat well and jam out piggies.


What Do You Want From Food?

Eat beautiful things, become a beautiful thing.

I’ve clearly eaten alot of pork *oink oink*

But anyways, in the new year I’ve chosen to (and think we all ought to) focus on what we want out of our food. My greatest goal from food is joy because I live to eat, I don’t eat to live. Secondly sustenance, but there are a myriad of things you can come to expect from your food. I consume a heinous amount of tea often with rose petals and rose hips because I expect hydration, and to turn into a rose. Citrus (specifically lemons) I eat because they prompt my metabolism to forgive my sins and because they are delicious. Textures amongst all my number of foods are important to me because it’s not just what food does to the tongue but how food feels on the tongue. To sum this up, I want those of you who read this blog to both trust your own intuition in preparing your food but also to have a personalized “must” list of what your food should give you.

I’m considering going vegan for Lent, not because I am against eating meat (though I do have many grievances with the meat industry) but because I’ve decided I want a greater non-meat flavored production from my food. Obviously, my health is of consideration as well and I constantly ask if my brain is informing my food decisions or my heart (the metaphor is flipped on its head here, my brain wants chocolate and burgers and fries each day, my heart or better yet my arteries, just ask for sweet relief). This reflection calls for self-awareness and constant probing. When I was 21 I wanted my food to make me skinny (an honest to God pipe dream), at 22 I wanted my food to remind me of home, at 23 I want to strengthen my good habits and broaden my scope.

In my craft as a wannabe chef, I find I’m constantly attempting to return to simplicity like my father or Ina Garten (I love you goddess). In the States, it is quite difficult to be simplistic while also being shocked by depth of flavor. Not to harp on France but…depth of flavor is easily available in all things there. As they move away from a vintage system, the States is fortunately hopping towards said system and farmer’s markets with real food and depth of flavor is approaching. It’s quite easy to taste the essence of beef, or pork, or lamb. But our conception of vegetables and fruits has become greatly misconstrued due to our current food system. I expect my food to clear the haze.

I don’t expect each of you to write an opus like this on what you expect from your food and why, but I would like to hear your expectations. Food is just behind air and water on what we require to survive, so why not be clear about what you want from it? Let me know, or tell me I’m too ~dramatic~.


Be good and eat with expectations, piggies.


Chill on Netflix

So I spent the holidays in France and my heart is still there so bear with my American melancholy tinged writing. I learned a great lot about food while I was on the other side of the ocean and almost as much about appreciating it. My newfound learnings brought me to a realization, appreciating food often means eating without distraction.

How often do you prepare yourself (or others) a meal, sit down, get cozy, then turn on the tv to provide yourself with some mealtime entertainment? Meals have become the side dish to the greater mind suck that is watching tv. Have you ever had the feeling of finishing an episode and being pulled in so many different directions that you cannot remember the plot or the meal? I was raised on family dinner each weeknight, which meant no tv, no phones, and maybe a nice sprinkling of jazz radio in the background, if my parents were so moved. Having gone to college, moved out of my parents home, and heavily invested in my wifi and tv (I can’t afford net neutrality and neither can you) I’ve realized how nice it is to return back to those days when phones and tv weren’t allowed at the table. When the only thing to pair with your sparkling wine was sparkling conversation. And even if you do end up talking about tv, you’ve removed yourself from mindlessly staring at the screen while you don’t remark at the flavors of your food.

I’ll give you that when eating alone it would be a sad scene to curl up and listen to jazz. But, let’s not just leave restaurant table manners at the restaurant, when eating in groups let’s actually participate instead of turning on your favorite show and cutting off conversation. I’m mostly dragging myself here, as I cannot tell you the last time I had guests over and didn’t turn on the tv for their own and my entertainment, instead of regaling them with tales of my life and superior wit (I can’t drag myself completely).

Anyways, let meals be meals, and let tv watching be paired with wine, snacks, and ice cream. In 2018, I’m hoping to maintain my focus on food and give it the attention it deserves (like you ought to to this blog #plug).


Let’s live our best lives piggies, and focus our attention.


Playing with Your Food


At my age, and probably far before it, playing with your food is frowned upon. However, there is a massive market for toys that allow you the joy of playing with your food and creating strange concoctions that you can then gleefully partake in. I have to say my participation within this market has always been full of vigor but most often led to disappointment. Though I do believe that these toys are great as stepping stones for kids to get into cooking and to exert power over their own meals (muahaha).

Yes, I had an Easy Bake oven. In fact, I had two. The first I got Christmas morning probably when I was 6 years old. It was the original pink, white, and purple, and I could not wait to open it. So much so, that my brother and I disobeyed our parents orders to wait for them to put it together and decided we knew how to screw in a lightbulb. Or so we thought. We (probably me, I will take the blame) installed the bulb incorrectly and in trying to take it out it shattered. If you know anything about Easy Bake ovens you know the lightbulb is the most important part and that every other piece is just superfluous nonsense. So, in fact, I never used it. Fast forward a few years and I had somehow coerced my parents into buying me an Easy Bake Real Meal oven and I was thrilled. Not only could I bake all the sugary delights my heart desired, but I could also make mac and cheese and pizzas. DELICIOUS. Or so I thought. The dry brittle creations that came out of that oven were so horrid that I don’t think I even finished the food packs that came with it and I turned to my very real oven and made myself a snack.

Though I knew the food that came out of these machines could never compare to what came out of my oven, I had an obsession (shoutout to marketing companies of the late 90’s/early 2000’s, you had me hooked). The presentation always seemed so simple “just add water” “in 90 seconds” “you can do it all on your own” that even as I matured I still found those vintage toys kitschy and sweet. For many people, they were the first to introduction to creating their own food and perhaps one of the most important steps towards becoming an independent adult. I transitioned directly from these toys to the kitchen and a happy life making dry brittle food by my own hands (lol jk its delicious). Often what these toys were able to highlight was the process. You can put a plate of food in front of anyone and often they will not appreciate it as much as the chef, the one who poured their blood, sweat, and tears into your bechamel (haha ew). Think of the home cook who puts a plate in front of their unappreciative spouse or children and is greeted with “ew” and “I don’t like this” or “God can we order takeout?” These are blows to the ego for sure but they result because of a lack of respect for the process. These toys showed so many children across the globe that their caretaker was actually taking care to prepare their meals. I got a Baskin Robbins homemade popsicle set as a gift when I was 5 or 6. The goal was to mix up different flavored powders with cream or water then churn the popsicle molds through ice cold water. My father and I spent at least 3 hours at the kitchen table and still ended up with runny ice cream that wouldn’t adhere to the popsicle stick. However, I don’t think I’ve ever complained about the homemade ice cream my grandmother makes each year, nor the hundreds or thousands of meals my father has made me (except for split pea soup, that is not for me).


I recall afternoons baking with my younger cousin (a notoriously picky and vocal eater) and seeing his appreciation for food grow before my eyes. Allowing him to prepare his own food gave him respect for the effort and an a treat by the end of the day. As a crowning achievement, I’ve never heard him complain about my food. All of this is to say: yes, the product from these toys will most likely be disgusting. I’ve included pictures of my recent foray into food toys with Kracie Popin Cookin’s Ramen set. Yet I have to say, the product was a flavor I hope to forget, but the way there was pretty fun. It still amuses me to play with my food and I think there is still so much to learn when it comes to cooking, that is ALL in the process and not at all in the end.

Sometimes, you just gotta trust the journey.

And throw up the product.


Play well piggies.


Kitchen Tapes: Dessert Course

So I’m not doing a Lunch Course because lunch is either a re-heated leftover or a sandwich and you don’t need a playlist for that. But dessert. Aah dessert. God’s favorite meal. A true delight to the senses. And no matter your opinions on dessert, whether it should be sugary sweet or a mellow bitter build to a slightly sweet finish; I think we can all agree on one thing: sugary sweet pop hits are the soundtrack to every dessert. What better pairing? Sweet music to add to your sweet meal, and you can even throw in some pop songs with hidden meanings if you want that bit of mystery. Check below for my favorite songs to cook dessert to. Feel free to rifle through all of the playlists and send me suggestions to cook to, a good chef is always updating their repertoire of course.


Kitchen Tapes: Breakfast Course

Contrary to popular belief, breakfast is the time you want slow R&B crooners to help you sway while you scramble your eggs. When voices should wrap around you like cigar smoke while your tea warms you and your bacon stirs you.

I told you, late luxurious breakfasts are my religion, and the hymns of this religion are a necessary form of praise. Breakfast for me begets smoother, richer tones, something soft yet bitter all the same. For dinner, everything is a rush, even when you’re making a fourteen-hour stew EVERYTHING is a rush as you build and make your plate and dine at a decent hour and serve your friends and go to bed. But breakfast, breakfast gives you the time to relax, it gives you the time to have time. Wake up at noon, eat breakfast at 4pm, sip the last of your tea at 5:00 and then go out on the town for dinner (I have just described my perfect day).

Here’s my soundtrack to that perfect “morning” of my perfect day.



Kitchen Tapes: Dinner Course

Cooking and music go hand in hand, or fork in hand.

My aunt, who is a wonderful chef that I cook with often, once told me, “you can’t cook without music”. This has greatly figured into my personal cooking philosophy and I now hate cooking in silence. Music flavors your food just as much as seasoning or emotion does. So my main suggestion is to cook to music, you’re preference is King and you can play whatever you’d like, but i’ll tell you some of my favorites.

I have strong opinions on what I like to cook to depending on the time of day and the type of meal. For breakfasts I prefer lighter music with a more romantic theme. But this is the dinner course and I really love cooking dinner to heavy, strong bass-ed, thumping music. Dinner and trap music are a match made in heaven in my humble opinion. Heavy flavors of a hearty dinner are affirmed by heavy beats and strong lyrics in the music, not to mention it just makes the ambience in your kitchen so much fun. I find this is directly influenced by your own personality and music tastes, I really enjoy cooking dinner to a strong bass line, an R&B oldie, hip-hop, or just about anything with strong material to bring out my emotions and better the meal (they always say cooking with love is the best, but I think strong emotions period translate directly into the betterment of a meal).

In order to better illustrate my suggestions I have attached a dinner cooking playlist below that you are welcome to follow, though I hope you will soon have your own kitchen playlists up and running. Be warned that most of the songs are quite explicit in nature, so please don’t if you suspect some lyrics will offend you, and don’t fret the breakfast and lunch courses will be much lighter in subject matter.

Cook happily to the beat of your own playlist’s drum, and be good.